尼康单反最好机型是什么 10 Signs You Have a Toxic Mother

In a previous story about toxic friends, Dr. Lauren Phillips, Psy.D, told Wellness Director Sarah Stiefvater, “To say that a person is toxic is to reduce them to only bad qualities and dismiss any redeeming qualities or strengths. When we understand that ‘hurt people hurt people,’ we can more aptly identify the unhealthy aspects of a relationship that aggrate or even trigger us.” She tells me that someone’s consistent struggles with interpersonal relationships likely point to significant, unhealed wounds from previous relationships that are vulnerable in current relationships. “These wounds may become sensitive parts of the relationship and evoke insecurity. A person may react to feelings of insecurity with oidance, withdrawal, anger and aggression—either verbal or physical, going into over-drive to try to please or a combination of behiors.” She continues that even when a person recreates unhealthy dynamics over and over, they’re not wholly toxic. “Instead of labeling people as ‘toxic,’ which concludes they are the issue and exonerates the other person in the relationship, we can understand that a person has wounds that are so painful for them that they are inflicting vicarious pain on others.”